Why do children have remedial classes when they go to primary school?
Before I confess, I have to take my children to run and play happily outdoors, so as to close the distance between father and son. In the process of playing, I encouraged him to try to learn everything during class. If he doesn't, ask him in time and explain to him when playing outside. I didn't expect the child to become the top five in the class in about two months. This process made me deeply realize the absolute leading role of parents in education.
Since then, the main task every night is to take the children to do various sports or go shopping. They are holding hands, with endless stories, endless discussions, endless questions, talking and laughing. In the sixth grade, they are basically the top two or three in the class.
Tell him about the ancient history of China when he is free in class, and then listen to audio books and read history books when he is interested. I started reading the original versions of The Journey to the West, The Water Margin and The Romance of the Three Kingdoms from the fifth grade or so. The books that children read are all classics, and they are all original works. After reading it, their reading ability has improved and their understanding of people and things has become more and more profound.
There is a set of books entitled "Terrible Science". There are dozens of books that children have learned, and they are constantly discussing with you. There are endless questions every day. In the process of answering him, we read and think together, expand our knowledge and deepen our understanding of things.
When I graduated from primary school, my child told me that in recent years, my class has evaluated ten excellent compositions, and he has five or six alone. The basic skills of Chinese are listening, speaking, reading and writing. I led him to practice listening and speaking in life, and extensive reading is the ability to read. In class, he only needs to follow the teacher to improve his writing ability. The above is the study of Chinese. Let's talk about English.
I learned some English before going to school, but I found it basically useless, just tiring my children. Primary school English has been making up a lesson outside every week, and you will find that if parents don't follow up, the basic effect is not great. Later, I read Emile's book, which pointed out that you should not learn a foreign language in advance. First, to learn the mother tongue well, it is better for children to start learning foreign languages when they are older. Later, I checked some information. Many people suggest that you learn a foreign language seriously from the third grade of primary school, and learn your mother tongue well before the third grade so that your English can keep up with the progress of school. The learning method is to recite the text while listening to new concepts. If you can memorize both the new concepts 1 and 2 before you graduate from primary school, your English will be fine before you graduate from basic high school. You can download the corresponding listening materials for free on the website of New Oriental. You will find that children who learn a foreign language when they are older get better grades in one month than in one year when they were young. It is said that the way to recite is to listen every day, then read aloud while listening, and then unconsciously recite it, just like learning to speak when I was a child. When I was in the sixth grade, I designed a simple program to remember junior high school 1600 words by holiday.
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Math is simpler. In the lower grades, it is addition, subtraction, multiplication and division. When he got ten dollars and twenty dollars, he went to buy fruit and steamed bread. He talked about buying, learned to calculate accounts, and learned to calculate, and his feeling of numbers came up. Younger children, he counted the railings, steps and bricks in the yard; Measuring with footsteps, the length and width of roads, the width and length of buildings, etc., all mathematical knowledge, combined with real-life scenes, is far better than having a makeup class for one or two hours in ten minutes, and all the students are really talented and have preserved their interest in learning.
When I was in the fifth grade, I gave an Olympic math class. Basically, there is no homework once a week. I got 40 points for the first time. A month and a half later, I got 80 points for the second time. After another month and a half, I got 1 14. It has been around 1 10 since then. Many people have studied olympiad since childhood. Later, I found the answer in Rousseau's book Emile. When children are young, the best way to learn is to study in the natural environment. Although they have little knowledge, they are old. Once they begin to learn, they will soon surpass other children who are locked in the classroom for a lot of tutoring because of their good health, strong exploration ability, strong observation and thinking ability and great interest in learning.
Because the primary school is too loose, the handwriting is always not very good. When I was in the first grade, I had more than ten classes in the first semester, and there were three or four hundred classes in a school year. But soon after next semester, I will be in the top 50 of the school year and the top 5 of my class. In the third grade, it is often the first in the school year.
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After the senior high school entrance examination, everyone took the senior one class, but I still didn't make up the lessons. Now I have been in high school for almost half a year, and I am studying in the provincial key high school competition class (Yong Zhi class). The school year is also in the top 50 (17, 20 students in Qingbei of our school have a bumper harvest this year).
In the whole learning process, the most profound thing I know is that every child wants to be an excellent self. Whether he can become an excellent self depends on how much help he can get from his parents. This kind of help doesn't mean sending make-up lessons, but whether parents can cultivate their children with scientific methods from an early age, face life step by step and optimistically, overcome many difficulties, and constantly lead their children to their goals with the best methods and scientific concepts!
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Everyone is the most controversial about English learning, and so are other occasions. Because the last generation of us all worked hard for English, I'm afraid that our children can't learn well or not. Me too. I can go step by step, and it's not too difficult to see him learn. On the contrary, it is extremely difficult for him to get high marks in Chinese. In high school, he didn't care about English at all, saying that everyone could learn more than 145 anyway, and the most discriminated against was Chinese.
I don't practice listening either, so I asked him if he would like to. He said that listening is the easiest, and I don't need to practice it specially, and I won't ask too many questions. After the second day of junior high school, I have taught myself and don't need too much participation from my parents. But every holiday I will design some exercises according to one of his weaknesses, so that his study will be more comprehensive and balanced, and experts are stronger than weaknesses!
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Good parents are efficiency experts.
Some time ago, I saw a news that more than 700 points in the college entrance examination failed to get into Tsinghua Peking University. The content is that more than 700 graduates in Hengzhong exceed 100, and more than 700 points in other schools exceed the enrollment of Qingbei and Beibei in Hebei. Naturally, some students can't get into Qingbei. Coincidentally, after checking the results of Liaoning college entrance examination, the number of people with 600 points or above has doubled compared with some years ago.
After reading two pieces of news, I broke out in a cold sweat and couldn't help sighing about the fierce competition among my classmates and the excellent academic performance. No matter what requirements are put forward by the education department, how to change the form and content. China's parents will lead their children to learn to the extreme. It can be said that as long as you ask, I will 100% do my best. It can be seen that the competition faced by students and the environment in which they live are not what their parents looked like when they were studying. Behind them also stand these students, especially the parents behind outstanding students. They have become a combination of high knowledge, high salary and high energy. In the final exam of last semester in grade three, my son was the second in the academic year, and the parents of the first classmate were both doctoral graduates of Northeastern University. Now he may have been a doctoral tutor, and other parents were extremely impressed: "Parents, that level of ability is not comparable to ordinary people." In short, excellent children depend on excellent parents. Such children are cultivated by their parents' "careful calculation", so how can we make scientific and pragmatic calculations? Here I also talk about my own calculation method, so that parents can further understand and understand general concepts on the basis of establishing correct concepts through calculation, and then make more scientific and reasonable judgments.
First, the calculation of the schedule,
Junior and senior high school students generally lack sleep because parents and teachers blindly pursue the extension of study time, and they stubbornly calculate how much study time they have every day. The most obvious measure is when to go to bed. The later you sleep, the harder you study. I hope to surpass others by studying longer than others. In fact, this is not the case. Usually the best students don't sleep late. Why? Because people's energy is limited, the body needs the necessary sleep time to restore physical strength, memory and relieve fatigue. Some scientists have found that a body fluid called cerebrospinal fluid will slowly flow into the brain to clean and maintain it. If the sleep time is too short, this process cannot be completed, which will reduce the function of the brain. If you lack sleep for a long time, it will lead to more adverse reactions.
So how to balance the schedule through careful calculation? Too much sleep will inevitably lead to laziness, and insufficient sleep will damage health and brain power. We can check the standards. Sleep for eight hours, and the best time is from 10 to 6 am. This point should be firmly remembered and applied to study and life. It's so simple. Why do you say so much? Because in junior high school, teachers will instill the concept of 10 in the first grade,10 in the second grade and 12 in the third grade. If you leave your homework, you can't stop. Parents are constantly reporting their work, and they can't wait for their children to learn until dawn. It can only be said that such teachers and parents ignore the laws of science and are helpless when they are helpless. I believe I can have a good sleep every night 10 to 6 am. At this time, I can get the best results in my study, and naturally I should get the highest results. It can be said that an increase of one point is too much and a decrease of one point is too little. Just like screwing a screw, both parents and teachers should screw it properly. Too little force will be unstable, too much force will be slippery.
What should I do if my grades are not satisfactory at this time? There is only one direction to work hard, that is, to improve learning efficiency, not to extend learning time. At the same time, we should form the habit of sleeping and getting up at a fixed time, because regular work and rest can improve our energy at work 10%- 15%, and make our study achieve the maximum effect.
If 16 can scientifically arrange efficient study during all waking hours, it must be very tiring by 10 pm. On the contrary, some students often stay up until after midnight, either they don't devote themselves to their studies during the day, or they are harmful to their studies under extreme fatigue. If they persist for a long time, it will be counterproductive. The worse they learn, the lower their scores. Parents and teachers should bear in mind that scientific work and rest, at least 8 hours of sleep every day, will achieve the best results in learning, and naturally will achieve the highest results.
Second, the calculation of how much to make up lessons,
The most tangled problem for parents of middle school students is whether to make up classes and how much. Here is a simple calculation method. First, prioritize and focus on school classes and homework. If you have spare time, you can choose the weakest subject to make up lessons properly on the premise of listening to the class carefully and finishing your homework carefully. If you stay up late after 10 because of making up lessons and writing homework, then give up resolutely, because of excessive fatigue, the effect of listening to lectures and writing homework in one day will be discounted. If the study effect of 16 hours during the day is 15% off, it is equivalent to two or three hours less study, which is not worth the loss because of lack of sleep. If it endangers health again, not only will you not get excellent children, but even healthy children will be lost.
Third, scientifically calculate the learning progress,
The level of children's academic performance can be roughly calculated by learning efficiency x learning time. The study time of middle school students is slightly different every day, and the distinction between high and low grades mainly depends on learning efficiency. In the state of adhering to the scientific schedule, the daytime activity time should not exceed 16 hours. So how to improve learning efficiency? If we go outside to breathe fresh air and exercise every recess, then the next 45 minutes of class time will become effective study time, otherwise it can only be recorded as effective study time. If we record the effective study time as 1, the efficient study time as 1.2, the ineffective study time as 0, and the harmful study time after ten o'clock as-1, we can pass it accurately. More specifically, running 15 minutes every morning and afternoon can make people healthy and full of qi and blood, and can improve the efficiency of the whole day by 0. 1. By adding, we can accurately calculate the scientific daily life schedule, and then calculate the maximum value of the whole day. We can also list various timetables and calculate the maximum efficiency respectively. You may find that, similar to the schedule of work and rest in Hengzhong, teachers and parents can further deepen their understanding of the macro-arrangement of learning through accurate calculation, and then put forward scientific and reasonable learning requirements for students.
Fourth, the calculation method of extending the effective learning time,
Some people will say that to ensure learning efficiency, learning time is limited, so why do you propose an extension here? Efficient learning needs a combination of static and dynamic, brain and body interspersed, alternating outdoor and indoor, so is there any way for us to do one more thing? Of course, if you can have an hour every day, parents can take their children outside, bask in the sun, blow the breeze of nature, talk hand in hand while walking, and let the children say what they can't doubt, so that parents can explain clearly and solve their doubts one by one. So in this process, the child did several things at the same time. First, the communication between parents and children. Second, he was exposed to the wind and the sun of nature. Third, he relaxes his body and mind and strengthens his physique through activities. Fourthly, he learned a wonderful lesson by answering his parents' questions. So can it be said that he did four things at the same time in one hour, which makes it four hours?
There are many similar forms. Parents should use their brains to do similar things, so that children can do the most things in the least time, that is, maximize efficiency. Will you forget this time?
Through the above example, you can master several principles: activities can be carried out outdoors, but not indoors, and parents do not need to ask others (including teachers) to solve problems.
5. Calculation of efficiency in the process of seeking knowledge,
Learning is a process of teaching and learning, involving the process of imparting knowledge and the thinking ability of grasping memory. Let's start with a quantifiable example. If there are two cram schools, class A can let children remember junior high school 1600 words for 20 days, and class B can also remember junior high school 1600 words for 0 days, which costs 3,000 yuan. I will not hesitate to choose Class B, because it has the same effect, less time consumption and high efficiency. Theoretically, if every lesson chosen for my child is the most efficient, naturally he can learn the most knowledge and get the best results in the limited study time. Is this the way to settle accounts?
So how can children acquire more knowledge in a relatively short period of time? Let's give an example. If you explain a problem to your child clearly, A uses 3 sentences, B uses 2 sentences and C uses 1 sentence, then the child should understand this problem, learn 3 sentences from A and 1 sentence from C, so as to stand out for a long time. Counting the time again, the study time of group A is three times. If the efficiency of group A is 1, and group C only needs 1/3, remember that 1/3 consumes children's time and energy as that of group A 1/9, and the efficiency is about nine times that of group A. Through calculation, it can be concluded that teachers and parents should use the clearest and concise language when communicating with children. Children's time is extremely limited and precious. Therefore, people who impart knowledge need to think carefully, explain things in simple terms, and use precise and concise language to make the process of imparting knowledge truly an efficient learning process.
Sixth, the calculation of the efficiency of parent counseling and teacher counseling,
I always think that the communication between parents and children should be the smoothest, and only parents' guidance to children is the most efficient way.
We think about a problem. When we tell a child a question, what is the reason why he doesn't understand? On the other hand, if he understood every sentence, every word and every concept in the process of explanation, and he experienced every example, would he still understand it? It is precisely because in the process of explaining a problem, he applied the concepts of language and vocabulary that he didn't understand and quoted unfamiliar examples that he couldn't understand the new problem. So who is the best person to solve this problem? Parents, of course. Only when parents grow up with their children can they be familiar with their children's language system growth experience. Therefore, they have the prerequisite to explain the problem in simple terms with the language that children are familiar with and the examples of life practice they have experienced personally. So a good parent should be more efficient than a good teacher. Problems that children can't figure out and teachers can't understand may only be solved by parents.
7. Calculation of remedial effect,
Make-up lessons usually take two forms. One is that teachers teach students systematically, and the other is that students ask questions and teachers explain them. In the first case, no matter whether the progress is ahead or behind in school, students will definitely not learn as thoroughly as they did in school by further learning knowledge twice. However, not all students can learn it at once, and the rest need someone to make up the lessons. At this time, it is best to make up lessons in the second way, only explaining that they won't, and there is no need to repeat that they will, which is more natural and efficient. Usually, the second form of make-up lessons requires one-on-one or one teacher to guide several students, and the natural price may be higher. If there are problems in every subject, it will be difficult to do it. There are only three main courses in primary school, so there are more middle school students. Therefore, it is best for someone in the family to assume the responsibility of general tutor. When parents become the strong backing of their children, they can answer questions and improve efficiency, which is also the reason why parents are encouraged to go into battle in person.
But some parents said I wouldn't do that much. I always think about it carefully before the first day of junior high school. If you can't do it in the first grade, you will generally do it in the primary school after five or six years. The sooner parents clear their minds and take their children to the front desk, the road ahead will go on by themselves. For example, many children take them to the first day, and the ability to solve problems comes up in the second day, and they no longer need help from others. Therefore, the lower the educational background and level, the more parents should study with their children from an early age and take them on the right path as soon as possible. In the future, all they need is ideological guidance and logistical support. Therefore, "children go to school, parents go to school" is by no means empty talk. Only parents who really accompany their children can gain excellent talents.