I'll teach you a trick, you learn to play, and then take a few days off to accompany you. You play every day except during meals, and your sleep time will be reduced to six hours. How long do you think this doll will last, and then spit when you see the game?

First of all, I think your situation may involve legal issues, a junior high school student, and then "drop out"? The Compulsory Education Law does not allow guardians to force children to drop out of school, and even voluntary guardians cannot let children drop out of school.

Without discussing legal issues, a child who has just entered junior high school is in the stage of making friends and learning knowledge. He still doesn't have a strong ability to distinguish right from wrong. Now he has no same-sex friends and no room for study. Why did you let him drop out of school and stay at home?

After a child is frustrated in some way, it is easy to indulge in novels or virtual worlds.

For ordinary children who are addicted to games, if you simply tell them that "you can't play games, playing games will affect your study and your eyesight", he may listen at first, but if you say it again, he may disagree, because he has no sense of identity and he doesn't know why playing games will affect his study. In case he meets another child who plays games and studies well, he will think you are lying to him.

Children like to deny their parents' teaching and explore their own beliefs.

Before he was frustrated by something, if his parents chattered in his ear, it would only arouse his disgust. The more you talk, the more he may play. You hide your mobile phone, and he will steal it after you leave.

During this period, parents should call it a day and occasionally say that it is important to take him to do some music, sports and crafts, and slowly take him out of the game. The child is curious about everything, so you take him to try something more novel and slowly take him out of the game.

If you give the little boy a Transformers, do you think he can still play with his mobile phone?

However, the subject's condition was too serious. A junior high school student dropped out of school at home and beat and scold when playing mobile phone. Is it useful? Hurry to find a place to study, learn some useful skills for the future, and don't leave a psychological shadow on your child at last.

I recommend you to watch Kim's video about family education. What she said involves the child's 6 years old, adolescence, rebellious period and other stages. It's really good.

Nowadays, many children like to play with mobile phones. I think the biggest problem is that the mobile phone can be played, but the time should be controlled. Take the children out for a walk. In the afternoon, you can do housework, sweep the floor and mop the floor in your spare time after school. If you don't like to do it, you can implement a reward system.

Solution: Turn interest into work.

Assign him tasks, how much time he must play every day, what stage he will play in a certain period of time, and so on.

Really can't. Send him to that kind of e-sports persuasion class (youth training camp experience professional training)

Children's internet addiction really gives parents a headache, and they are worried that there is nothing they can do in the future. Beating and cursing doesn't work at all, and it will push the child further.

If you want to solve the problem, you must first understand the reasons, mostly because you have escaped from real life, alienated from your parents, disagreed with your classmates, and been rejected by your teacher. You have found a sense of control, accomplishment and value on the Internet, and become your own king in the online world.

A brief sense of control releases dopamine, which is addictive, just like an adult brushing Tik Tok. You can talk to your child and ask him what the purpose of the game is. In the rebellious period, they are very arrogant and feel that they can be professional gamers. Then send him there, except for eating and sleeping, they just keep playing games with the mouse and keyboard, and returning to reality in a few days will make him very depressed.

Junior high school students' rebellion is simple and pure, and there is no bad idea. What is needed at this time is the patient companionship and guidance of parents. If you think that children are more important in the future, then put down what you are doing in advance and spend more time with your children.

How can I put it? Children are addicted to games for several reasons.

One: everyone around him is playing, and he wants to play together.

Two: no hobbies, too boring to attract.

Child addiction is a very troublesome thing.

When playing games, he will become very irritable, and it goes without saying that he always quarrels.

It is very difficult for them to give up smoking. In theory and practice, no one can help them quit except themselves.

But it is not completely helpless.

You can try interest transfer or conditional negotiation.

Interest transfer is to find something that interests them. You can't be too hasty You have to get them out of the game bit by bit, but your parents will get tired if you spend more time.

Conditional negotiation means that you do something for me, you can play games for a while, you can ask them to help with things at home, and you can also ask them to exercise, but you can't say it too hard, you should be flexible.

It is a very troublesome thing for children to indulge in games, which makes parents feel sad, but don't go too far and be calm, otherwise pushing children too far will have serious negative effects.

My younger brother's primary school is also fascinated by this game, and quietly uses his mother's mobile phone to recharge and buy skin.

After being known by my mother, I made a fortune directly in the four seasons, and then I was educated in language. If I really don't listen, I'll confiscate my mobile phone.

Tell him the pros and cons. Just play for two hours on weekends. Parents can also set time limits for the growth of teenagers, such as playing for up to two hours a week or as long as possible. If you can't get online, you can't play directly.

Minors have a healthy effect on teenagers, especially good, and the money your son spent can also be refunded from the game. My brother spent more than 10 thousand, and then I asked Tencent to return it, but it was a little troublesome.

I know the most vicious one. Set the game to password login, login exit, and then repeat. I didn't use it for three days, but I vomited in two days.

Without the glory of the king, there are many games such as eating chicken, mini-world and DOTA. What you need to do is to cultivate a positive and beneficial interest to occupy his spare time.

Take the team to stun the child.