The child has just entered junior high school. What should parents pay attention to?
(1) academic increase loses money. In the first grade, with the increase of subjects, children's grades may fall behind those of primary schools. At this time, parents and children will feel anxious and think that there is not enough study time every day and they can't finish learning knowledge. Actually, this is a normal phenomenon. Parents and children should be honest with their grades, improve classroom learning efficiency, manage their own time, coordinate with teachers and solve problems together. Parents should not blindly enroll their children in many extracurricular remedial classes, or put extra pressure on their children, leading to the emergence of children's weariness of learning and other emotions.
② Poor self-care and self-discipline. From elementary school to junior high school, the seemingly simple leap is actually not simple. When entering the first grade, children must have a role orientation for themselves, no longer children, but responsible teenagers. In fact, this psychological preparation process needs long-term preparation. When children are in the fifth and sixth grades, parents should cultivate their children's self-care and self-discipline in their living habits and study habits, let them do housework properly, and manage their time in principle when playing video games.
③ There are differences in thinking habits. Learning habits and thinking in junior high school are very important. The difficulty and breadth of learning knowledge are increasing. Therefore, we should concentrate on doing, reading and listening to lectures at ordinary times, and form good habits. At the same time, we should be good at finding problems, be diligent in thinking, dare to question, be good at summing up and have the ability to actively explore. Regardless of study habits, thinking habits or psychological aspects, in the new stage, there will always be various problems. Parents and children should make predictions and respond intelligently.
4 wrong learning methods. Due to the increase of English, history, politics, biology, physics, chemistry and geography, it is not feasible to copy the learning methods of primary schools. Moreover, some children have already studied in private junior high schools, so they must take care of themselves independently, have the ability of self-study and take the initiative in learning. At this time, my parents are not around, so I need to remind myself to study. Therefore, it is necessary to learn some fast reading methods, such as "elite fast reading memory training", to improve children's reading speed, fast understanding and key memory, to cultivate attention, reading comprehension thinking and memory, and to achieve twice the result with half the effort.
In short, at this stage, it is necessary to strengthen the cultivation of children's self-management ability and turn passivity into initiative. Only by actively and consciously learning can we smoothly adapt to the learning task of junior high school and further promote the learning of senior high school.